Simone is a true master of the lost art of feminine leading without lifting. With over a decade of experience, she has empowered countless women worldwide to unlock the hidden secrets behind their dating and relationship woes.
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I've been in your shoes. I've tried every dating app, read countless relationship books, but something was always missing. My relationships would fizzle out, and I couldn't figure out why.
But then, everything changed. Through sharing dating advice with my online tribe of women and testing strategies through my own trial and error, I discovered the "secret formula" that had eluded me for so long. I finally understood why some relationships work while others don't.
Here's the exciting part: It's not about luck, looks, or destiny. It's about consistently showing up for yourself. I'm here to show you how to lead in your relationship while still allowing the man to do the heavy-lifting.
When you lead without lifting, dating becomes effortless. It takes away all the guesswork and makes dating easy.
And here's the best part: You will get the commitment you want on YOUR timeline, not his. No more waiting around, wondering if he's ever going to take the next step. You'll have the tools and strategies to create a relationship that meets your needs and desires.
Are you ready to discover the power of leading without lifting? Join me and let's make dating a breeze! Together, we'll unlock the secrets to lasting love and create the relationship of your dreams.
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I've been in your shoes. I've tried every dating app, read countless relationship books, but something was always missing. My relationships would fizzle out, and I couldn't figure out why.
But then, everything changed. Through sharing dating advice with my online tribe of women and testing strategies through my own trial and error, I discovered the "secret formula" that had eluded me for so long. I finally understood why some relationships work while others don't.
Here's the exciting part: It's not about luck, looks, or destiny. It's about consistently showing up for yourself. I'm here to show you how to lead in your relationship while still allowing the man to do the heavy-lifting.
When you lead without lifting, dating becomes effortless. It takes away all the guesswork and makes dating easy.
And here's the best part: You will get the commitment you want on YOUR timeline, not his. No more waiting around, wondering if he's ever going to take the next step. You'll have the tools and strategies to create a relationship that meets your needs and desires.
Are you ready to discover the power of leading without lifting? Join me and let's make dating a breeze! Together, we'll unlock the secrets to lasting love and create the relationship of your dreams.
JOIN NOW
It was the summer of '06, I was working at a medical school, my first “big girl” job.
And boy was it a lesson in dating and men.
From Steve, the older Vice President who covered his ring finger whenever he was around me. I didn’t know I had to look at a man’s hand to annotate his relationship status. Don’t worry, I wised up pretty quickly.
To stingy Joe who wouldn’t even pay for my $3 meal when we ate lunch together. Was this how dating was supposed to be? I had no damn clue. Except that it made me uncomfortable that he didn't even offer.
How about fine ass John who asked me out but I lied and told him I was in a relationship to prove to him how desirable I was. When inside I died a little because I really wanted to date him.
And sweet David who was flunking out of medical school but had genuine feelings for me.
All of these men I knew how to attract, but none did I know how to keep.
Nor were they particularly a great catch.
After a few years working at the medical school I decided to join the military. And again, I got a whole different lesson on men, women and relationships.
How about all 54 of my boot-camp sisters and I (although I wouldn’t admit it) started to develop an immense crush on our married instructor. Who by the way was nothing to write home about. But 8 weeks of basic training and his foreboding presence did something to us.
But in the midst of that I learned how to really date once I entered the military. I was having fun and dating came naturally. Men were asking me to be their girlfriend without me trying. Buying me gifts, surprising me with gifts I didn’t even know they knew I liked.
But this was at a time when I didn’t want anything serious. I wanted to work, have fun and take night classes. Nonetheless, I was thankful for the gifts and the lessons on how to get them!
Then something happened around this time that set my feminine leading without lifting in motion.
Kevin.
Kevin had done it. He had pushed my last fucking buttons and our friendship would soon be over.
I had asked his ass if he could take me to the phone store the following day so I could get my phone fixed. I didn’t have a car yet and he was my go to friend with a car.
Kevin decided to get bold with me. He told me sure and then added a caveat that I need to call him tomorrow to remind him in case he forgets.
“In case you forget! Do you have a memory problem?” I asked him with an attitude.
“Look” I said, without giving him a chance to answer.
“Do you think because I don’t have a car I need you. Don’t get it twisted, there’s other people I can call right now who will take me. So just let me know from now if you’ll remember or if I need to get someone else.”
He started stuttering, “Sorry, sorry Simone, no I can remember for sure, it’s just … sorry.”
“Ok.” I said.
On the dot the next day he was there. But something had changed in him. He was now a bit nervous around me, a bit unsure and on his best behavior not wanting to piss me off.
And then the unexpected happened 2 weeks later. One night after coming back home from a fun activity Kevin DROPPED a bomb on me that caught me off fucking guard!
“WILL YOU BE MY GIRLFRIEND?”
HOLD UP, WAIT A MINUTE, HOW THE FUCK DID WE GET HERE??
I went from not knowing how to get men to take our relationship to the next phase to Kevin, MY FRIEND asking me to be his girlfriend without me doing anything or knowing what I did.
But we weren’t even dating, so how could I be his girlfriend? Oh shit, did Kevin think us hanging out were dates? Shit, he probably did. Was I unconsciously leading him to this destination? I think so, but how?
And how could I make it work consciously and all the time with the men I actually wanted to date? I would soon find the answers in the lost art of feminine leading without lifting.
“No” I said “I’m sorry” as I practically ran out of his car in shock while I left him in my parking lot in tears.
That experience started my fascination and deep dive into men, relationships and their intricacies.
But for now, I needed to find a new ride.
After the military I moved back home to pursue a degree in Family Science from the University of Maryland.
During this time I started my online tribe of women. We discussed our dating & relationship woes and aspirations.
I started sharing with my tribe of women how to get men to buy them gifts and other tidbits I had learned over the years.
I wasn’t dating much even though I wanted to date. None of the guys at school interested me as they were all younger.
But no worries, I knew my prince charming would eventually show up. Right?
I was attractive, so he had to show up and sweep me off my feet like they did in the movies.
Boy did I learn a valuable lesson on how wrong I was.
After wasting more years without dating, I had a wake-up call when one of my social media follower messaged me to tell me she had used some of my dating advice and was benefitting in her relationship - getting gifts from her date. However, she wanted to know how to make her relationship last and what to do next to become his girlfriend. I was flabbergasted, she was tangibly benefitting from my dating advice while I was still sitting at home waiting for my Prince Charming to show up!
I quickly learned that it is not the prettiest, slimmest, nor sexiest woman who gets the dream relationship and man (that is the illusion at first), but it is the woman who consistently puts herself out there and shows up for herself and what she wants.
After that message from my follower, I started to take my dating life into my own hands and decided right then and there to be more strategic and active about my dating life.
Within a year after that message from my follower I was married and no longer second guessing when the right man would show up. I took control of my dating life and got exactly what I wanted; all while reaping all of my womanly benefits in the relationship by allowing the man to do the heavy lifting.
I can now say that the loving relationship I am in is not because of chance, whim or him. It is because of my due diligence.
My reward is having a loving husband who aligns with my values.
With him I can sit in my femininity and work on any creative measures I choose, if I choose. Or, I can relax, take trips, go shopping or do whatever I desire. None of this is because of luck.
If I were not with my husband, I would be reaping these same rewards with another great man. You will soon come to realize that nothing is ever lost and men are not limited editions.
When Women lead, Men follow AND do the heavy lifting.
Unfortunately, many women believe they have to wait for the man to take the lead. But you’ve seen where men’s romantic leading has gotten you – confused, unsatisfied and stuck in a state of limbo waiting for him to finally commit. Men's romantic leading leaves you with no control of the timeline or direction of the relationship.
NO MORE! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!
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