Tuesday, October 22, 2024
When people I meet in real life ask to be added to my social media, I often hesitate, particularly if it's someone of the opposite sex or someone who seems interested in me romantically. It's not that I'm hiding anything; rather, my energy can be a bit overwhelming. I think you have to pace yourself when getting to know me, otherwise, my presence can feel intoxicating and addictive. It's not something I'm consciously doing nor am I saying this for egoic reasons, it's just an is of how my energy comes off to others.
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The more someone delves into my presence, the more they entangle themselves in my essence, my beingness, becoming almost addicted to my energy. This isn't because I'm more special than anyone else—though some may perceive it that way. The truth is, my energy and depth act as a mirror, reflecting back to them a forgotten aspect of themselves — something familiar yet ethereal and unknown. In that reflection, they see parts of their own inner self, aspects that have been masked over time but somehow feel awakened in my presence. As a result, there becomes a magnetism from them to me, yet their attraction isn't really towards me but towards their own inner self, their soul, which I reflect back to them. In the same essence, this reflection can also trigger a reaction as it is a glimpse of where they are not quite yet, in a sense, which then repels them from me, as feelings of unworthiness, or the shadow side of who they are become triggered.
For this reason, I prefer that those I've encountered in the physical world get to know me organically. I want them to see my quirks and how I am in my everyday life. When someone gets to know me as a person first, I'm not as mythical. Once they understand me in the 3D, I don't mind if they then explore the deeper aspects of myself or the concepts I share, whether I share it with them directly or they discover it through their own means.
However, if they primarily try to understand me through my online presence, or by connecting in a non-physical, '5D' way, I become almost mythical and elusive to them—someone too deep to truly know. This can make my persona seem intimidating, as they've already placed me out of reach.
Those who uncover my depth slowly, after knowing me in the physical world, tend to appreciate who I am more genuinely. They don't become as addicted or intimidated by me; they see me for the most part as how I present myself in the 3d, and not necessarily the nonphysical aspects. If you ask my friends and family, they'll tell you I'm easy-going and fun, with some 'wild' ideas at time. They know me as a person first, and only if they choose, they see the deeper aspects of myself.
I'm like an onion, a cake, or a Russian doll, as we all are—there are layers to me that should be discovered gradually. Too much exposure to the bigger concepts of who I am can be overwhelming, especially if someone hasn't seen how I operate in my daily life. But when you get to know the grounded, everyday aspects of myself, it's easier to appreciate and accept the more profound, 5D elements of my being. This makes me less elusive, overwhelming, and addictive.
Therefore, I hesitate to share my virtual side or even the 5d aspects of myself with people I connect with in the 3d unless they've first gotten to know me as a person. This approach ensures a more balanced and authentic connection, for the both of us.
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