We are the BFF! We are Powerful Women who understand the importance of leading in our relationship while still allowing the men to do the heavy lifting.

IN A WORLD WHERE PASSIVE DATING IS PROMOTED TO WOMEN, BFF STANDS STRONG, EMBRACING AN ACTIVE STANCE IN ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE, ESPECIALLY IN OUR ROMANTIC PURSUITS.

GONE ARE THE DAYS OF marrying the boy next door. We are dating online and casting our net far and wide. 

We have become Powerhouse Bosses and Moms. Yet we are being told we should wait to be chosen by a man, even the most undesirable man. #IThinkTheFuckNOT!

BFFS STEP UP IN ALL AREAS OF LIFE, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S COMES TO OUR ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS. 

As BFF we do not allow ourselves to be passive bystanders waiting to be chosen. #WeChoose

We lead while men follow AND do the heavy lifting. 

This means that the man is still in charge of booking the dates, paying for the dates, buying gifts, asking the BIG relationship questions (on our time schedule).

Subtle actions are our superpowers! We know true leadership is not loud, overt or obnoxious but it lies in the subtleties. It lies in vulnerabilities. Albeit, we speak up when necessary because we know it is worth it.

We believe that being true to ourselves and our desires is crucial to building healthy relationships.

We refuse to settle for less than we deserve. We do not accept lazy, STINGY, disrespectful, and emotionally unavailable men. We demand respect, commitment, and chivalry in our relationship.

While we recognize that the current dating culture is heavily influenced by patriarchal norms and unhealthy relationship dynamics… We reject these norms and challenge men to do the same. We stand for something greater than the current dating status quo. 

Moreover, Bffs are not here to sacrifice ourselves at the hand of patriarchy. Nor are we here to solely change the rules of patriarchy that can take many moons to dismantle. 

WHAT WE CHOOSE TO DO IS LEAVE A RESOUNDING MARK ON THE HISTORY OF THIS TIME– DECLARING, “WE WERE HERE! WE MATTERED! WE GOT WHAT WE WANTED AND DESERVED EVEN THROUGH THIS.”

We are the BFFs! Bringing back the lost art of feminine leading without lifting!

CEO of Women Lead Men Follow