Is taking leftovers home from a date tacky?

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I have a girlfriend who consistently hoards food to take home whenever she dines out. This behavior is a constant whether she's with me, with other friends, or on dates.

It's a practice she maintains without fail. No matter where we eat - there she goes with her leftover bag. Whether breakfast, lunch, dinner, or any other mealtime, even when the dining experience falls short – there she goes with her collection of leftovers.

It comes off as tacky to me and as though she’s a food hoarder.

There are instances when her refrigerator has amassed an assortment of nearly 20 food containers, sitting – waiting to be devoured. And more times than not, they go bad before she consumes them. I think she likes the idea of having various leftovers at her disposal to eat whenever she desires. However, it has gotten to the point where it is compulsory and done at EVERY outing. Always, she leaves a small bite to take home.

Here’s the pitfall – while it may be okay and acceptable to take leftovers home while dining alone or out with friends and family, it is preferable that you skip the leftovers while on a date.

Here’s why you shouldn’t take leftovers home from a date

  • It may come off as tacky to your date. From my dating experience, I can affirm that most men – in fact, none of the men I dated – ever opted to take leftovers home from a date.
  • It’s a hassle holding the bag everywhere you go. Especially if your plans involve hopping to the next spot or you won't be revisiting your car.
  • You are now tied down with a leftover bag for the remainder of the night.
  • It may come off as though you are purposely over-ordering on his dime.
  • Sometimes it’s not allowed at the restaurant you dined at. Example, Brazilian Steakhouses, Japanese sushi buffet, buffets, etc.
  • It could incur an additional fee to take leftovers home depending on the restaurant’s policy. And then it’s awkward and presumptuous to assume your date would be paying the extra fee for you to take it home.
  • You do not want it to be perceived as though you are dependent on the leftover for your next meal. Making it seem like you are in need.
  • You don’t want your date to feel like this is always the norm with you. It gets old after a while. Predictability in this case can breed contempt.
  • It may come off as though you are not used to eating out so are overly impressed with the food. Especially if it was a restaurant that didn’t live up to the hype.


While dating, I chose not to take leftovers home from a date. I didn’t want any man to think I was depending on his little meal at home, whether I was or wasn’t.

If you dislike wasting food, the solution is simple -either order less or eat what you ordered.


If you still insist on taking leftovers home, here’s some rules to abide by:

  • Do not do it on a first date. (Preferably, avoid it on dates 1-5).
  • Wait until you’re in a more serious or comfortable stage of dating.
  • Try to put the leftovers in the car right away (out of sight, out of mind).
  • Do it sporadically, not on every single date.
  • Mention how much you love the restaurant and how he made a stellar choice. Express that it'd be a shame to let such a delicious meal go to waste.
  • Mention how stuffed you are and how you’d rather not see the food go to waste.


Alternately, you can skip the leftovers and revisit the restaurant alone or with your friends. Get your fill or take as much leftovers home as your heart desires.


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