Then, after y'all have broken up, you're going around shaming the dude's $16 child support payment, not realizing how much of a basic bitch it makes you look. Who the fuck fucks a man who can only provide $16 a month to his progeny. Y'all knew damn well he was a bum when you allowed his ass womb space. But were probably too damn caught up in that ride or die bullshit, "my man gots potential" b.s. You cannot lay down with dogs and then be mad when you get fleas. Have some fucking self-respect and standards on who gets entrance into your pussy and womb. Selectivity is a gift afforded to women, learn to UTILIZE it!

A man borrowing your car every other day isn't going to be able to provide for you or his children. A man in between jobs isn't going to be able to provide for you and your children. A man without ambition isn't going to provide for you or his children. A man still living at his mama, baby mama, side piece or YOUR house isn't going to be able to provide. A man wanting you to pay half of everything isn't going to be able to provide. A man running the streets, slinging dick and drugs isn't going to be able to provide for you and yours. A man in prison isn't going to provide for you and yours. Stop fucking with them and giving them womb space. Moreover, remember that when you shame their asses online for not being able to provide, you are also shaming your wack ass, weak ass standards. It's a double edged sword, remember that.

It's one thing putting these males on blast for immoral shit but to put them on blast for only being able to provide a minimal amount of child support is also putting your own self on blast. You knew he couldn't provide yet you still CHOSE to carry him. Elevate your standards, it's that simple. You are the sole one who chose him. Your children have both you and him to thank for their degenerate lifestyle. Just because you stuck around to raise your offspring doesn't get you off the hook for the fucked up lifestyle and resources you did not secure for their existence. You and him are both to blame. Remember that.

Stop embarrassing your trifling ass baby daddies online for dumb shit, because, honestly, it makes y'all look like straight up fools who cannot control your pussy or womb. But want to complain after the fact. It doesn't work like that. I would be hella embarrassed to admit that the man whom *I (personal responsibility) chose to father my children could only provide $16 a month to help with their existence. Hella embarrassed. Fuck, a dead man can provide more than that on a monthly basis for his progeny. So, what y'all are saying is you willing fucked and gave womb space to a bum who's contribution to his progeny is worth more when he's dead (via governmental assistance) than when he's alive. That's not even something I would put out for the public to see. I would not embarrass or degenerate myself in that way. Again, double edged sword.

It's easy to spot low self-esteem, neurosis and dependency. Be careful what you are inadvertently saying about yourself while trying to expose/shame the next person.
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​Ok, ladies, I love you guys, I don't like getting on y'all too much, I'd rather direct it at men lol. So don't take this one too seriously and go read my next blogpost getting on the men Should you send him pic