So again, vibrate on my level or we separate. Neither I nor the Universe will allow anyone vibrating beneath me into my life. That is an is.

-Stay in a Positive, Constructive State:
Maintain a positive mindset and focus on constructive activities.

-Daily Meditation:

Go within the silence to find your inner peace. Meditate during moments of stress, doubt, or anger. 

-Do the Work to Evolve and Grow:

Spiritually, emotionally, physically. Start where you are, with what you know. Read books, be in a state of ever learning and growing.

-Stay in a State of Love and Compassion:

Keep your heart open and practice kindness and empathy towards yourself and others.

-Do Not Lower Your Vibration:

Do not go down to somebody else’s vibrational field; let them come up to you or separate (emotionally and, at some point, physically). Otherwise, you will lower yourself to their vibrational level and take on whatever negative energy they’re emanating. And what good will that serve you or them?

-Finding Your Tribe:

Know that soon enough, your tribe will reveal themselves to you on your journey. These are individuals vibrating on a similar or higher frequency than you. But that will only happen when you stop allowing yourself to be lowered to somebody else’s vibrational field or to the toxic environment you are in.

-Be in the World but Not of It:

Meaning, be who you are, rub your love off on everyone (it is unlimited) as it is who you are. But don’t let yourself get sucked into anyone’s frequency or negativity. Do not allow yourself to take on the frequency of the environment. Vibrate higher and higher. Be you. Be in the world but not of it.
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Let’s say you are in your house (or wherever), doing the inner work. Staying positive, being loving, learning, and growing. Your frequency is elevated. You are straddling the field of both the 3rd and 5th dimensions, whether you are consciously aware of it or not.

​Let's say you go out, and maybe the environment you enter is vibrating lower (this is due to the vibration of the people in that environment). And let’s say the people you meet are also vibrating lower. One of three things will occur:

1. You Allow the Environment to Affect You:

You let the environment and the people around you rub off on you. Your mood changes completely, and you now find yourself vibrating on their lower frequency. Whatever they are feeling—anger, jealousy, hate, animosity, etc.—you start feeling too. You have allowed your vibration to be changed, to be lowered.

2. You Maintain Your Vibration:

You keep your vibration the same as when you left your house, emanating love and inner joy. In order to enter your energy field, individuals around you must vibrate up to you. They must meet you where you are. This may be harder for them to do, as your light and happiness can trigger feelings of disdain or malice in others (that’s their problem, not yours).

Alternatively, your presence can inspire them, allowing them to choose to vibrate higher to bask in a higher frequency, even if just for a brief moment. Thus, you effectively inspire someone to elevate their vibration to match yours.

3. No Mutual Elevation:

Neither you nor they chooses to meet each other at your respective vibrational frequencies. As a result, a natural separation occurs. This is not necessarily a negative outcome; it simply means that your paths are not aligned at this moment.

(The term “rubbed off your shine on someone else” is a false saying and I think the translation has been muddled a bit after being passed down. I think it is a mixture of both 1 and 2 together and thus got lost in translation. Your shine is not rubbed off if you stay within your vibrational field and allow/inspire people to use your light as a guide for them to vibrate on a similar frequency. Or what happened in scenario 1, you didn’t rub your shine off on them (as their frequency is still the same), instead, you dropped your shine to lower yourself to their frequency. Thus, allowing their lower vibration to “rub off on you” but more accurately, choosing (whether consciously or unconsciously) to allow yourself to be lowered to their lower vibrational frequency. Life is all about frequency.)​
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Frequency is why marriages end and why people leave their family, friends, and environment.

Here’s how it plays out:

-Living in Toxic Environments:

You can either vibrate on someone’s lower frequency with them, possibly living a tit-for-tat, toxic existence. Being in a constant unstable state allowing everybody else’s frequency to “rub off” on you, or more accurately, allowing yourself to vibrate at their lower frequency. Unfortunately, this is what happens to many people, often unconsciously.

-Inspiring Others:

Alternatively, you can inspire them to vibrate to your frequency, but they must decide to do the work. This leads to a harmonious, progressive union with both parties on similar vibrational frequencies of elevation and growth.

-Choosing Separation:

Or, you choose not to lower your frequency for them, and they choose not to come up to you. In that case, a separation must occur. This is beneficial for you. I don’t give a fuck if this separation means leaving a spouse, family, friends, your environment or whatever else. Why should you allow yourself to be continuously brought down to their level when you are no longer vibrating there?