To Send or Not to Send: The Real Deal on Sharing Pics with Men

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Should you send men pics? a

Absolutely fucking not. They get to see whatever pics you have up publicly and that’s it. Anything extra is reserved for men who are ALREADY committed and invested.

But trust and believe, these men will fucking try it. Yes, even the so-called “good” ones.

A man wrote:

“Hey ladies, here's some unasked-for advice straight from the man-cave: let's talk filters! Seriously, like 98% of your pics are filtered, and it's kind of a bummer because we have no clue what you really look like. We get it, filters make you look amazing, but then you get mad when we ask for unfiltered pics early on. We just want to see the real you, not the Snapchat version!

Just like you don't want to be catfished, hatfished, beardfished, or lied to about height (yeah, we know!), we want the real deal too. 🤣🤣

Also, when all your dating profile and Facebook pics are filtered, we start to wonder if you’re not as confident about your natural beauty, which might actually block your blessing. Trust us, we’ll love you without them!

Hope this doesn't come off the wrong way. Just trying to give some perspective you might not have considered. Happy Mingling!”


My response to him:

“Here’s the truth from a woman’s perspective, we don’t give one fuck, two fuck, red fuck, blue fuck what you want or don’t want. That’s a you problem. You’ll get whatever picture I choose to put up on a dating site, nothing more.

I mean, you’re asking for pictures to be sent to you, are you booking an actual date to try to get to know the person.

I don’t understand why men feel so entitled to a woman’s pictures. If I want to catfish you, use filters or do whatever else I want with my own autonomy then that’s my prerogative. Now, once we go on a date, it is your choice to choose to continue the interaction or not based on what you see and believe. As well as the woman. But what a woman chooses to post or not post about herself is her prerogative. You’re not entitled to anything more. And if it matters to you that much, well, only go for the “unfiltered” women; if you can’t find any, then it sounds like a you issue lol. Get out and meet actual women in person then you won’t have to worry about filters or being catfished.”


I remember while dating my husband early on, I think we had one or two dates already. He messaged me asking me to send him some pics of me.

Now this is a sly question and tactic used by males to get some possible naughty pictures from a woman. It’s a possible test to see how much she’ll comply or to see how far she’ll go.

My response to him was: “All my pictures are on my dating site.”

He said ok and never once asked me for pictures again lol.

Now some other variation of responses I’ve used with others is telling them that they’re welcome to take a picture of me on our next date (if they’ve already booked a date).

On the date I’ll let them take a nice smiling picture of me, either sitting down or standing up. I’ll say something like “oh, I promised you a picture, you’re welcome to take it now” then I’ll smile and let them take the pic on their phone. That usually satisfy their curiosity as they know they’re not getting anything else or more.

I usually don’t get the question asked anymore. And if they were to ask me again to send them pics then I would respond in the same way, “you’re welcome to take a picture of me on our next date.” (If they have a date already booked). If they don’t have a date booked then I tell them they can find my pics on whatever dating site or online platform they met on.

These men aren’t getting anything more. Sorry, not sorry 😂😘


P.S. Let’s not forget men hatfish, beardfish. Or teethfish, all the non-smiling ones who know damn well their teeth is tore up from the floor up!

We don’t like it, signed the ladies.

Ok, I kid, I do like the beard or mustache thingy. You can keep that lol.

P.s. I guess I should say this as well in case someone thinks I mean never to send a man a pic of yourself on your own accord but obviously, once you’re in a relationship if you want to send him a fun pic or I guess (naughty) pic of yourself, you’re welcome to do it. But honestly, in full transparency, I’ve never sent a man a naughty pic lol. I guess the closest I’ve gotten to doing that is sending my husband a pic in my underwear and his favorite shirt while I was on a solo vacation. And he loved it. He couldn’t stop talking about it for days. But that’s just me, but there’s nothing wrong with you doing what you’re going to do once you’re in a committed and invested relationship.


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