Absolutely fucking not. They get to see whatever pics you have up publicly and that’s it. Anything extra is reserved for men who are ALREADY committed and invested.

But trust and believe, these men will fucking try it. Yes, even the so-called “good” ones.

A man wrote:

“Hey ladies, here's some unasked-for advice straight from the man-cave: let's talk filters! Seriously, like 98% of your pics are filtered, and it's kind of a bummer because we have no clue what you really look like. We get it, filters make you look amazing, but then you get mad when we ask for unfiltered pics early on. We just want to see the real you, not the Snapchat version!

Just like you don't want to be catfished, hatfished, beardfished, or lied to about height (yeah, we know!), we want the real deal too. 🤣🤣

Also, when all your dating profile and Facebook pics are filtered, we start to wonder if you’re not as confident about your natural beauty, which might actually block your blessing. Trust us, we’ll love you without them!

Hope this doesn't come off the wrong way. Just trying to give some perspective you might not have considered. Happy Mingling!”


My response to him:

“Here’s the truth from a woman’s perspective, we don’t give one fuck, two fuck, red fuck, blue fuck what you want or don’t want. That’s a you problem. You’ll get whatever picture I choose to put up on a dating site, nothing more.

I mean, you’re asking for pictures to be sent to you, are you booking an actual date to try to get to know the person.

I don’t understand why men feel so entitled to a woman’s pictures. If I want to catfish you, use filters or do whatever else I want with my own autonomy then that’s my prerogative. Now, once we go on a date, it is your choice to choose to continue the interaction or not based on what you see and believe. As well as the woman. But what a woman chooses to post or not post about herself is her prerogative. You’re not entitled to anything more. And if it matters to you that much, well, only go for the “unfiltered” women; if you can’t find any, then it sounds like a you issue lol. Get out and meet actual women in person then you won’t have to worry about filters or being catfished.”
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