Motherhood is a testament to a woman's resilience and strength. Yet, despite these profound challenges, society continues to cling to outdated and simplistic notions of femininity and womanhood. Women are often mischaracterized as fragile beings, incapable of enduring true hardship—a misconception that starkly contrasts with the harsh realities we've just explored. This misrepresentation not only diminishes the genuine strength and resilience of women but also perpetuates harmful stereotypes that shape our perceptions and interactions.

To move forward, it is crucial to challenge these false narratives and recognize the depth and complexity of women's experiences. By confronting these misconceptions head-on, we can begin to reshape the dialogue around gender dynamics and foster a more equitable and empathetic understanding of womanhood.

 The truth is that women are exhausted by emotionally and physically inert men who lack accountability, by pass their responsibilities and fail to comprehend intergender dynamics. Even married women are fatigued by men's emotional and physical laziness and lack of accountability. The state of masculinity is in disarray.

Men have dropped the ball, leaving women unguarded and unprotected, burdening them with the responsibilities of child-rearing while they shirk their duties. This is a cop-out—an excuse to avoid taking full responsibility. Women leading is essential because men cannot lead a woman in their delusional state. Women do not need men to run their lives; they need men to contribute equally when they enter "her" domain, and this has nothing to do with finances. Through collaboration, sharing ideas, and supporting each other's growth, a balanced and thriving partnership can emerge.

I implore men to treat women with respect and tenderness, recognizing the unparalleled physical pain women endure. We do not seek to have our true nature and experiences overlooked to stroke men's egos. We reject the delusion where women carry physical burdens while men are perceived as enduring the most physical pain. This is far from the truth, and we all know it.

There's a running joke amongst nurses that men are the worst when it comes to pain, especially the macho men.

When women are solely portrayed as weak or delicate princesses, it overlooks a part of our essence, pain, and trauma. See us for who we truly are—deserving of kindness, tenderness, and love despite what we have endured, bared, and seen. We refuse the deluded notion of women being weak while men are strong. This narrative is false.

While historically, men have been associated with physical battles, women often confront different kinds of struggles with equal courage and fortitude. Whether it's enduring the physical and emotional demands of childbirth, navigating the complexities of single parenthood, or maintaining the physical and emotional well-being of their romantic relationships and family life, women consistently rise to the occasion. They shoulder these responsibilities not because they necessarily chose to, but because their inherent compassion and strength drive them to ensure that essential tasks and emotional bonds are maintained. This portrayal underscores the idea that women's battles, though different, are no less significant and often require an extraordinary level of emotional and physical resilience.

Life unfolds with its gentle fragrances and beauty, juxtaposed with the harsh realities of decay and decline. The waters, at times tranquil and soothing, can also rage and roar, reflecting the diverse experiences we navigate. Women embody all facets of life, embracing its complexities and contradictions. They deserve tenderness, kindness, respect, and love—not because they are soft and weak or unfamiliar with pain, but because they encompass all these aspects and experiences.

Viewed through this lens, we can prevent the erasure of women's experiences and allow for genuine tenderness, love, care, support, and physical protection from men, which is indeed appreciated and valued. Through this recognition, women feel genuine care and love for all that they are and for the totality of their experiences
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Women have been present throughout the history of time, standing alongside men as they wage their wars, staying back to take care of their children and often starting over again or living life alone should he not return. It's crucial to acknowledge that women have felt pain, endured hardships, and experienced the full spectrum of life. They are not just delicate and tender, invisible and castaway; they encompass the entirety of the human experience. And like men, they have been here too, contributing profoundly to the tapestry of our shared evolution.
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