Why?

People were never the final destination, but a journey to bring you back to self and a connection with your inner self. Only then can you be in accord with another. When you realize the goal was to always find/meet yourself in that inner space/place within, then the journey begins to make sense. The heartache, the pain were merely gateways back to self, to source. The discomfort was there to bring you back to self, to source.

The journey was never about having another be your "be all to end all" or to use them as a crutch to stay away from self. The more you hold on to another, the sooner abandonment finds you. For it was never meant for you to hold on to them, but through them to find you. They were a catalyst to bring you back to Source, the Universe, God, Mother-Father God, whatever name you may call source and through that connection all things are granted, all doors are open. The Universe’s abundance opens up to you completely.

First it must be your connection with source by going into that inner place (through meditation), then your connection with self (a genuine and true self-love), then your connection (love) with another/others. But source was the love we were looking for all along. The all giving love, the ever-pure love. The blueprint. But how would we know if we remained attached and bounded to another’s love thinking they were our all, when we had yet to connect back to source.

Through pain, unkindness, a tender kind of love develops when we realize it was Source, the Divine we were seeking all along. No longer needing to hoard people and things. No longer fearing endings or beginnings. No longer fearing anything. Life opens up its abundant doors, where all things become possible. Miracles and magic unfold. Intentional creation unfolds.

One of my favorite quotes is “Free will is finding that all roads leads finally to the same destination.” - Edgar Cayce.

Meaning, all roads lead back to source. The discomfort is there to bring you back to source. The joy is there to bring you back to source, thanking it for its abundance.

Through that ever-loving connection with source all things are granted. True love with another, with others can then unfold without the fear of abandonment. For abandonment is but an illusion/a tool to bring us back into accord with source; to send you back to self, to source.

It is through the connection with Source that the usage of others as a crutch to soothe or ease our self-doubt seizes. It is in that place that a pure love with others can unfold without the fear of them leaving or hurting us. For even if that occurs it is simply not viewed the same, but more-so as a journey for them to find themselves.

"Be and let be," becomes a natural motto, where we allow others to be who they are, just as they are in this moment without taking any of it personally. It is not their love we are dependent on, but the love of source that grants all things, is all things, and yet is one and the same.

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