You know what “keeps” a man…?

Disdain, aloofness, being cold, going away, taking a trip without him (even in your marriage). If this is not naturally you as it is natural for me, develop a part of it within yourself. To be honest, men just naturally annoy me and I can’t help but roll my eyes at them and their bullshit lol. Just big, lazy ‘pretty’ princesses with their antics. And what I found out from a young age is the more I despised them, the more they gravitated to me, whether I liked it or not. These motherfuckers love the chase. In fact, the best way to ward them off is to like them too much and pay a lot of attention to them or dote on them (yuck). But honestly, they’re not getting any attention from me even if it's to intentionally ward them off, it’s too much effort that I refuse to give, so they can go suffer in silence pining for what they can’t have 😂

Men love women who causes them some dis-ease. The woman who makes their blood pressure rise and their blood boil a bit. The woman who he tells he likes white nail polish and she proceeds to wear black the remainder of the time she’s with him. Fuck his like, what the fuck does that have to do with you. If he likes it so much, then let him wear it. You know what I don’t like, a man who is too busy in a woman’s pot instead of his own. He needs to go build a damn house or some manly shit like that instead of concerning himself with what a woman is doing with her body parts and autonomy.

The amount of dis-ease I caused my husband while dating and even now was astronomical (never anything disrespectful). It wasn’t fake but I didn’t let up either because I knew how much it gets their blood boiling and thus inadvertently or advertently make them fall in love or lust. But also, I wasn’t afraid of losing him or any man, genuinely. I’m the catch, and I knew that, but not a fake version of being the prize but genuinely knowing it and believing it. It didn’t matter what a man’s career was or how good looking he was or any other factor, I knew that at any stage I had no problem walking away. I have done it, 10 times over. In my Dating Blueprint Course I teach you when to apply pressure to their necks and when to let up (briefly) to steer the relationship in the direction you want it to go.

I don’t live in a reality of “good men” scarcity. I don’t believe there is only piss left in the water. Like why the fuck would I think that. Why would I think the last generation of men or the last fuck-up of men were the best there were of men. If anything, I think they were the worst and the best is on its way. I wouldn’t give the next man or the next generation of men the disservice of thinking they are somehow worse than the bums of Christmas past lol. The best is yet to come.

*Also, note, don’t go around telling your new man about the bummy men of your past. Only thing he needs to know is you’re used to dating generous men with manners who had no problem doting on you or doing nice things for you.

I think what gets women in trouble and what gets them to be manipulated by men is believing in scarcity. They’ve allowed useless men to brainwash them into thinking they were the best. Nope, those men were not the best or are the best. Not at all.

Here’s my advice, don’t take the pressure off these men’s neck. Don’t let up. Men act like women are the emotional ones, when at night they lie in bed pining for what they can’t have lol. I feel like there is no man in this world I can’t get to fall in love with me. Except, I wouldn’t do that cuz I don’t need the ego-stroking like they do. Knowing it and having the tools and knowledge is enough for me. So don't let up on them, especially on the ones you like.

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